tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post2940480283540232661..comments2023-07-10T08:42:55.738-07:00Comments on The Complicated Writings of a Complicated Man: Words I Should Have SaidAllenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01502992558205472575noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-72023941214966187022011-05-20T16:33:28.702-07:002011-05-20T16:33:28.702-07:00Dean, Erica, whatever you want me to call you now,...Dean, Erica, whatever you want me to call you now,<br /><br />I honestly don't know what you want me to say here. Honestly I didn't expect there to be a here. You weren't supposed to read this. I'm not mad that you did, just surprised. I don't know if I can accept your apology right now because, again honestly, I don't know exactly how much of it you actually meant. Allenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01502992558205472575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-3698944049617448832011-05-20T14:19:12.534-07:002011-05-20T14:19:12.534-07:00Laura,
College was a very hard time for me and I ...Laura, <br />College was a very hard time for me and I was very busy trying to keep myself afloat spiritually and financially. I failed to do that in college, and did not manage to do that until I moved to California and met my husband. During the time when we stopped being friends I was hurt by a few of the people in the group we hung out in. Since I was unsure who was really my friend and who Mark and Erica Linsenmeyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12681676728868092517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-18534016892294477282011-05-20T14:18:57.926-07:002011-05-20T14:18:57.926-07:00Allen,
I’m sorry. I don’t know what else to say, ...Allen, <br />I’m sorry. I don’t know what else to say, other than that I am sorry. After I moved, I had every intention of remaining friends with you to the same extent. I didn’t do a good job of that, but truly I tried. I was still struggling to go back to church, and I focused on my spirituality instead of everything else, including you. Then, I started dating Mark, and you ridiculed and mockedMark and Erica Linsenmeyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12681676728868092517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-91112428526719783762011-04-30T00:32:34.427-07:002011-04-30T00:32:34.427-07:00Well Allen this may not make you feel any better b...Well Allen this may not make you feel any better but she ditched me in a similiar way several years ago. And she didn't even do me the decency of moving away...Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17811970848937340795noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-40787507190114585212011-04-15T20:16:56.055-07:002011-04-15T20:16:56.055-07:00:-)
I find blogging about my thoughts helps to fo...:-)<br /><br />I find blogging about my thoughts helps to focus and evaluate them, and probably, yeah, venting's a large part of it.Liz Lancshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17467398113236121953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-28955133518887640492011-04-15T20:13:40.788-07:002011-04-15T20:13:40.788-07:00The blog was more for venting my frustrations with...The blog was more for venting my frustrations with how she acted towards me. I honestly don't really care if we are ever friends again, I just had to get it out. Kinda like a final chapter in a book. I doubt she will ever read it. And if she does, she has my number and we can talk about it.Allenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01502992558205472575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-5620151569661305992011-04-15T20:11:09.777-07:002011-04-15T20:11:09.777-07:00Adam, did you used to be Allen's bestie until ...Adam, did you used to be Allen's bestie until you got engaged to someone, then you dropped him like a hot brick?<br /><br />Allen, have you thought about letting her know that you're sorry? (Or is that what this blog's for?)Liz Lancshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17467398113236121953noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-53342048230143785082011-04-15T20:00:42.754-07:002011-04-15T20:00:42.754-07:00Oh, I figured it was just a part of your anonymiza...Oh, I figured it was just a part of your anonymization efforts.Adamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01052511078880647148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-31861333533614242612011-04-15T17:47:06.423-07:002011-04-15T17:47:06.423-07:00Just for the record Adam, no this isn't about ...Just for the record Adam, no this isn't about you. I would ahve figured the use of the word SHE and describing HER fiancee as a HE would have tipped that one off to you :)Allenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01502992558205472575noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-26443631094689844962011-04-15T17:35:28.099-07:002011-04-15T17:35:28.099-07:00This is about me, isn't it :( :( :(This is about me, isn't it :( :( :(Adamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01052511078880647148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2755831857820207245.post-88320016911671569302011-04-11T20:11:01.730-07:002011-04-11T20:11:01.730-07:00Your post made me cry.
It reminded me of how I mus...Your post made me cry.<br />It reminded me of how I must have treated my best friend a squillion years ago.<br />Situations were different, and truths unknown, but I realise now that I treated him really badly and he didn't deserve that.<br />I hope you (and he) find a new best friend who truly deserves your friendship.<br /><br />Liz<br />xLiz Lancshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17467398113236121953noreply@blogger.com